I'm not so sure I made a leap, though. I often see things in people that others don't see so clearly. I've heard many people like Guest use similar language and voice similar complaints, and all the while their real issue was how the world treated them. I could be wrong about Guest, but I don't think so.Homer wrote:Hi Damon
Seems you might have made a bit of a leap there in assuming Friend/ Guest is troubled for his/her own sake. Someone I know very well has great empathy for the downtrodden but doesn't feel unworthy at all of being treated with respect.
Yours in Christ, Homer
Yes, people can have great empathy for the downtrodden without feeling unworthy, but have you ever heard of the concept of the 'mirror'? For instance, what you like about someone is often the same thing you can see in yourself, whereas something you don't like about someone is often, once again, the very same thing you can see in yourself.
Homer, try naming three things you like in others and then ask yourself if that's the way you are. Then try it with three things you don't like in others. More often than not, you'll probably find that what you're seeing is a reflection of yourself.
I'm fairly sure that Guest is doing the same thing.
Damon