I was honestly hoping for something new here. I really was. But I was disappointed. I found his reasoning uncompelling, and his exegesis to be eisegesis.
Matthew Vine wrote:And while having a same-sex orientation is not in and of itself a sin, according to the traditional interpretation, acting upon it is, because the Bible is clear, both in what it negatively prohibits and in what it positively approves.
I think this is the correct position. Later on, though, same-sex orientation seems to magically morph into the same-sex as the only option available to him... ever. I don't see how that follows.
Matthew Vine wrote:The emotional bond that gay couples share, the quality of love, is identical to that of straight couples.
He's making a knowledge claim here that is pure speculation. There's no way he can back that up.
Matthew Vine wrote:Whenever I came to know someone whose company I really enjoyed, I would always fear that I might come to like them too much, that I might come to love them. And within the traditional interpretation of Scripture, falling in love is one of the worst things that could happen to a gay person.
How is this different than the condition of a married person? As a married man, I need to guard against becoming too emotionally involved with another woman. To do so would be one of the worst things that could happen to this straight person.
Matthew Vine wrote:You will always be alone.
Always? Really? Isn't that a bit like saying a smoker must always be a smoker no matter what, or a drunkard must always remain a booze hound no matter what? Doesn't this deny the healing capacity of Christ? (And yes, I'm suggesting that something needs to be healed.) Also don't you have a relationship with Christ? There are a lot of very lonely single people out there. Gays don't have a monopoly on that.
Matthew Vine wrote:Good teachings, even when they are very difficult, are not destructive to human dignity. They don’t lead to emotional and spiritual devastation, and to the loss of self-esteem and self-worth. But those have been the consequences for gay people of the traditional teaching on homosexuality. It has not borne good fruit in their lives, and it’s caused them incalculable pain and suffering. If we’re taking Jesus seriously that bad fruit cannot come from a good tree, then that should cause us to question whether the traditional teaching is correct.
Self-esteem and self-worth are not characteristics the Bible advocates all that strongly for Christians. Also, suggesting that the teaching causes these feelings is a bit weird too. It's like saying that the Bible's teachings against drunkenness leads to feelings of incalculable pain and suffering for drunkards. It's just not the case. It's the sin that leads to bad fruit. Not the teaching.
Matthew Vine wrote:And in all of the ways that a woman is a suitable partner for straight men—for gay men, it’s another gay man who is a suitable partner.
Another unsubstantiated truth claim.
That's as far as I got. I was planning on going through the whole thing, but there's just too much wrong to point all of it out, so I skipped to the bottom. Near there was this:
Matthew Vine wrote:But you are also striking to the very core of another human being and gutting them of their sense of dignity and of self-worth.
That's what sin does. It does it to all of us when God points it out and we honestly confront it in ourselves we find that we don't have a lot of self-worth. Our worth is not in ourselves. It's in Christ's love for us. Gays aren't unique in that respect. Neither are they unique in working very very hard to justify their sins. We all do that too.
I don't claim that homo-sexual sin is a worse sin that heterosexual sin. I think it's interesting this this comes so near to
Homer's post about qualifications for an elder.