This sort of response is exceedingly frustrating to me. I hear this response from people close to me, too. But, how can you ignore the plain words and be content with your "internal qualification" of what you mean when you say them? That seems very disingenuous to me.
I don't know what you think the plain meaning is. I expect that if you ask 20 different people what the pledge means, you'll get a variety of answers. I don't know what you define as "loyalty to our country" (i.e., allegiance to the flag/republic). Again, I see it as obeying the laws and just being a decent citizen. That's probably about the most common kind of answer you'll get, like from those friends of yours.
It's very possible that I haven't said the pledge in 10-15 years, and I don't care about it. It's just that it wouldn't bother me to say it and it doesn't necessarily bother me if others say it. (I sincerely hope this indifference isn't adding to your frustration even now.)
thrombomodulin wrote:
I would like to ask those here who affirm the pledge a question: If a situation such as occurred in the 1860's were to arise again, would you honor your vow by killing those who resisted participation in the union?
Your idea of what the pledge means differs from mine, and I guess that my view is closer to the common interpretation. So as you might guess, I don't think the pledge would require me to either kill someone or break pledge.
There is apparently a U.S. military oath, which goes in part like so:
" ... and that I will obey the orders of the President of the United States and the orders of the officers appointed over me, according to regulations and the Uniform Code of Military Justice."
That is, I guess, closer to what you think the regular pledge of allegiance means (which is apparently not enough to satisfy the U.S. military).