I would have contacted the administrator directly concerning this but the nature of my difficulty is that I can't do that either...

I have had intermittent success in sending PM's. Some say they got sent successfully, but do not end up in my "sent Messages" folder. Others say they were sent successfully but end up in my "out box." I have 3 messages currently in my "outbox" and I wish to know how to get them "really" sent. One of the messages in that "outbox" is a PM to the administratort of this site regarding this problemIs there something I am doing wrong? Are there difficulties with this portion of the site?
Please help. I don't like to delay my responses...
Thanks, Mellontes