Should he change churches?
Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 8:37 pm
I am posting an email I received today, along with my response:
Dear Steve,
The church I attend holds to the King James only translation, all other versions are considered wrong. I do not agree with this. I also disagree with their view on escatology. My concern is leading my family in the right direction. My daughter attends their christian academy where she is taught these views and at home I teach her otherwise. She is only in third grade, can this be a problem for her in the future? Or are these secondary issues that should be overlooked? Do you feel that I should look for another church that holds my same views on these issues?
Thanks!
R---
Hello R---
It is not ideal for you to have to "unteach" your daughter on a regular basis the things she is learning at church and school. The problem is that, if she believes you, she may come to disrespect the church leaders and her teachers. This might make it hard for her to learn anything from them, because she will always be wondering if they are right or not. Contrariwise, if she respects the church and her teachers' authority, she may come to have doubts about yours.
People who believe in the King James Only usually have other abnormalities in their Christian lives as well. This view only thrives among those who hold a fairly irrational, and even superstitious, view of scripture, which forgets that the Bible was originally written in Hebrew and Greek, that it was not even translated into English until about 1600 AD, many centuries after it was written and had been the standard of faith for Christians for a millennium and a half, and that there is no promise of God in scripture that guarantees that the 1611 translation would be less flawed than were those made before it, or those that would come after it. I don't mind if people believe the KJV is the best translation (I lean that direction myself). However, if they believe it is the most perfect translation that could possibly be made in the English language, they are irrational, unscriptural, and poorly informed. They exhibit a dangerous degree of pettiness, which makes them willing to major on minors and to demonize good Christians who translated (or who use) modern translations. In addition, such people are often very legalistic in their overall approach to Christianity
Differences over KJV-Onlyism and eschatology are secondary matters, which I can tolerate in others. If it were merely a matter of you fellowshipping with such people, I would not find cause for alarm in it, but since you have a family to protect, I would be concerned that you not expose them to a form of Christianity that is likely, eventually, to either turn them off to Jesus (as they have misperceived Him) or else to cause them to interpret Christianity in a way that will turn other people off to Jesus (as they misrepresent Him).
It can be hard to leave a church where you have established friendships, and especially if you are depending upon their school program for your children's education. However, I would be very concerned over the matters I have mentioned above. The King James Only movement has many of the dynamics of a cult, and I would not wish to have my young children fellowshiping primarily with those who insist upon this doctrine.
I know not every family is able to do so, but if you could possibly home-school your children during the earliest years of their education, you could guarantee that you remain the primary influence in the formation of their ideas about Christ, and you could save a lot of money over the Christian school option.
I would also recommend finding a more balanced fellowship for your family--at least while your children are growing up.
God bless you.
Dear Steve,
The church I attend holds to the King James only translation, all other versions are considered wrong. I do not agree with this. I also disagree with their view on escatology. My concern is leading my family in the right direction. My daughter attends their christian academy where she is taught these views and at home I teach her otherwise. She is only in third grade, can this be a problem for her in the future? Or are these secondary issues that should be overlooked? Do you feel that I should look for another church that holds my same views on these issues?
Thanks!
R---
Hello R---
It is not ideal for you to have to "unteach" your daughter on a regular basis the things she is learning at church and school. The problem is that, if she believes you, she may come to disrespect the church leaders and her teachers. This might make it hard for her to learn anything from them, because she will always be wondering if they are right or not. Contrariwise, if she respects the church and her teachers' authority, she may come to have doubts about yours.
People who believe in the King James Only usually have other abnormalities in their Christian lives as well. This view only thrives among those who hold a fairly irrational, and even superstitious, view of scripture, which forgets that the Bible was originally written in Hebrew and Greek, that it was not even translated into English until about 1600 AD, many centuries after it was written and had been the standard of faith for Christians for a millennium and a half, and that there is no promise of God in scripture that guarantees that the 1611 translation would be less flawed than were those made before it, or those that would come after it. I don't mind if people believe the KJV is the best translation (I lean that direction myself). However, if they believe it is the most perfect translation that could possibly be made in the English language, they are irrational, unscriptural, and poorly informed. They exhibit a dangerous degree of pettiness, which makes them willing to major on minors and to demonize good Christians who translated (or who use) modern translations. In addition, such people are often very legalistic in their overall approach to Christianity
Differences over KJV-Onlyism and eschatology are secondary matters, which I can tolerate in others. If it were merely a matter of you fellowshipping with such people, I would not find cause for alarm in it, but since you have a family to protect, I would be concerned that you not expose them to a form of Christianity that is likely, eventually, to either turn them off to Jesus (as they have misperceived Him) or else to cause them to interpret Christianity in a way that will turn other people off to Jesus (as they misrepresent Him).
It can be hard to leave a church where you have established friendships, and especially if you are depending upon their school program for your children's education. However, I would be very concerned over the matters I have mentioned above. The King James Only movement has many of the dynamics of a cult, and I would not wish to have my young children fellowshiping primarily with those who insist upon this doctrine.
I know not every family is able to do so, but if you could possibly home-school your children during the earliest years of their education, you could guarantee that you remain the primary influence in the formation of their ideas about Christ, and you could save a lot of money over the Christian school option.
I would also recommend finding a more balanced fellowship for your family--at least while your children are growing up.
God bless you.