Thrombomodulin wrote:
...I am thinking that before addressing the issue of employment, one should communicate the reality of Christ Jesus as a King, and that one must and submit to His authority. She would then have 'count the cost' and choose whether or not she will join the ranks of the believers. Part of the cost, for sure, is to give up this career.
I agree, though I think that what you and the others have already done by providing the couple a warm, dry, comfortable place to stay is an excellent display of Christ in action.
Homer wrote:Will somebody please explain to me why Christians (a congregation) should not inform the woman that she need not do this work and that they will see to it that her needs are met for food and shelter until she (and her man) can support themselves?
I agree, and I think Homer has hit several other nails square on the head in this discussion.
I return to something I said earlier in this thread, about Jesus being able to fellowship with sinners without facilitating their sin. That seemed obvious to me, but it may not have seemed obvious to others. Let me explain and expand:
1) Jesus drank wine. He allows us to drink wine if we choose. I drink a little wine now and then. But in allowing us to drink wine, Jesus in no way is responsible for the times when people drink wine in excess (drunkenness). In drinking wine with sinners (and manufacturing it at the wedding), Jesus was not facilitating sin. If someone got drunk at the wedding, it wasn't Jesus' fault, and He didn't facilitate that drunkenness by providing the wine. The sinful use of wine is our choice. Had Jesus encouraged folks to get drunk, it would have been a sin. Jesus did not sin.
2) Jesus ate food. He allows us to eat food. I eat some myself. But in allowing us to eat food, Jesus is in no way responsible for morbid obesity. In eating food with sinners, Jesus was not facilitating the possibility of them sinning by becoming obese. The sinful use of food is our choice. If Jesus had encouraged people to be gluttons, it would have been a sin. Jesus did not sin.
3) Jesus and His disciples had a bag of money. He allows us to have money. I have a few bucks. But in allowing us to have money, Jesus is in now way endorsing greed or the worship of mammon. The sinful use of money is not God's fault. Sin is always man's choice.
So, how does this relate to the young couple in question?
1) Providing food, shelter, clothing, money, and the gospel to an unsaved person who really needs it does not seem to me to be wrong. All of these things are basic human needs and none of them
inevitably leads to sin. In my opinion, providing transportation for someone to work at strip joint does not qualify as a basic human need and definitely does lead to sin.
There is the line of demarcation. I don't think Jesus ever crossed that line. Being divine, He knew just what to do all the time, unlike us.
2) If Jesus had been faced with the same situation
thromomodulin is facing, I think He would have loved the woman too much to transport her to a place where she would definitely sin and encourage others to sin. Doing so seems to me somehow akin to encouraging drunkenness, or obesity, or greed.
3) The solution (and the difficulty) lies, I think, in figuring out where the line is and not crossing it. One might say that
anything you do for the woman promotes her sinful employment. That is not untrue. But the difficulty here is that we have people with genuine human needs, I presume. Do we deny them the help they actually need? Probably not. So, then, the line seems to me to be at that point where the Christian actually, unequivocally, directly aids and abets sin (delivering the woman to her den of iniquity). That action seems to me to cross the line. I could not do it. "But she needs money to buy basic human needs," you might say. There are alternatives that can be provided (
Homer and others have suggested some), and to a great extent they are already being provided. Money to buy basic human needs
is a basic human need. But public stripping to get that money is not a basic human need.
4) One final point (I promise). How long does this go on? There are definitely many folks out there who have learned how to milk Christians for as much as they can get out of them. It is a home (or homeless) industry of sorts. Theoretically,
Thrombomodulin's situation could go on for years. What if the couple's car is repaired, the woman refuses to take or seek employment elsewhere, continues to "dance," continues to reject Christ, and continues to "need" your help. How do you extract yourself from something when it becomes clear that you are being taken advantage of? Do you keep-on-keeping-on, hoping that eventually she will repent and surrender to Jesus? Well we certainly hope and pray for the best, but the folks helping the young couple might need to consider this possible upcoming problem.
Again, I commend you, thrombomodulin (and the others), for what you are doing to help this lost couple while trying to "keep unspotted from the world." (James 1:27) And I direct you all back to Homer's posts, which seem full of good sense, advice, and challenge.
God bless those who are in Christ, and God help those who are not.
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