dseusy wrote:Great points... I think you are right, that we do need to hear different things at different stages in our walk- I just put out here what is encouraging me, and if it encourages others, fantastic... if it doesn't make sense, that's okay too (hopefully it will someday).
I definitely remember a time in my life (about 10 years ago now) where I was struggling through what you testified about. And, of course, there may come a time again when I struggle with it. Reading a post such as yours might prove helpful in such a time. To state, though, that everyone is struggling with it whether they realize it or not (as you said to Michelle) is probably an overstatement. We need not decide b/w being encouraged by your post or it not making sense to us. Sometimes it just isn't applicable to the person in question. It's pretty normal to get excited when God teaches you something and think that everyone needs to learn that lesson right now just like you did, but the reality is God is working on each of us differently. Paul wrote to the Romans about what they were dealing with. James wrote to his scattered congregation about what they were dealing with. If the letters had gotten switched around en route, I don't think they would have been extremely helpful to the churches in those locations considering what they were dealing with (at least not at the moment).
What I meant by my statement about repentance is that some believe that they can do whatever they want and say sorry, then go do it again and say sorry, never actually trusting Jesus. And then some believe they must specifically repent for each and every sin... this is what I was addressing- it is impossible to keep up with. We, as Christians, likely have a lifestyle of repentance where we have a constant heart of sorrow concerning sin, but by faith we move past the guilt to live in the freedom of God. It is out of this joy that witnessing has power and love is sincere.
I think you have properly identified the errors people make in regard to repentance. Some take it very casually (just saying sorry) while others agonize over trying to figure out every sin from their past. It seemed to me that rather than trying to find the balanced truth b/w these two errors, you were making a third error (not practicing the discipline of repentance at all post-conversion). But since repentance is a means to purity, that would be akin to saying you're already perfect once you convert (or have no interest in becoming more righteous).
Concerning talking out of both sides of my mouth, I was upholding the law... "Christians should"... we should do a lot of things, like what is good, righteous, and lawful... but this is the law which is fulfilled. The "shoulds" have been covered. It is a sequential statement, not a contradictory one. The servant and friend metaphor are both from the Bible, but one is a stepping stone to the other... the law leads us to Christ... since it is way better to be a friend of God rather than a servant, I promote the better. I'm not trying to teach people to disobey God's commands... otherwise I would be called least in the Kingdom of Heaven... I don't mean to preach friendship at the expense of anything worthwhile, but shouldn't we grow and progress from servants to friends?
Here I just disagree with you on both counts.
1. The "shoulds" have been covered only in the sense of earning salvation. The things that some people think they "should" do to earn salvation are not necessary in order to become one of God's people. But in another sense the "shoulds" are very much alive. In response to what God has done, what sort of people ought we to be? Even Paul has plenty to say about that!
2. I don't think the servant metaphor is a stepping stone to the friend metaphor. I think they are both helpful metaphors. Of course, people who have a legalistic mindset may need to focus on the friend metaphor more. But the opposite may be true of someone who has a haphazard or liberal view of reality. They may need to focus on the fact that God is their LORD, Owner, Master, King, etc.
It depends very much on where someone is in their heart and mind.