Talking to a De-convertist... all input welcome.
Posted: Sun Mar 05, 2006 8:26 am
Hey Guys,
I know Im new here, but Im on a mission... (as I believe we all are).
I work on another Christian forum as a lead designer and have met some very special people on that forum.
One of them happens to be a non-believer in Christ. That really isnt the difficult part. You see... she was raised in a fundamentalist Christian church her whole life, where she spoke in toungues as well as saw many great healings take place before her eyes.
After she got married and had kids she started to do research on her own about Judaism which ( if I understand it correctly) is where she "discovered that Jesus wasnt the Messiah".
She has given me many links that she thought would prove that Jesus wasnt the Messiah, but they did little for me other than show the typical Apologetics Debate between Christians and Jews. I have become very close with her and desperately want to see her come back from not believing to believing, if not for herself ... for her family (who are sturggling with her decision).
I have yet to get into anything really deep with her, because I have decided to take the approach of learning as much about what she believes as I can first. I still dont know what the key point is that has pushed her into not believing, but Im ready to find this out now.
Two things that she has mentioned to me that sound strange are this.
* She still feels the urge to speak in tongues, even as a non-believer.
* She claims to have always been able to see auroas around people, even as a child, which she was too scared to tell her family about.
Im not sure what she is claiming, but I can tell you all that I know she is very honest with me, and this is something that she is scared to tell many people.
A side note, I have started to get to know her husband a bit... and he is a believer. Im not nearly as close to him as I wish I could be, though I do plan on visiting them soon to get to know the whole family.
I guese this opens up the doors for many questions. One, I just want some advice to find out how to talk to her about her "de-conversion" as well as learn more about the reason she has for not believing anymore... and Two, I am very curious about the gifts she claims she has... can the gift of speaking in tongues still exsist without being filled with the Holy Spirit? and what about this Auora thing... what is that all about?
Thanks again for all of your help and time, this forum has answered many questions for me and I think Ive only read about half of it! hee hee...
In HIS grip,
- Sir Mighty Halo (Brian)
I know Im new here, but Im on a mission... (as I believe we all are).
I work on another Christian forum as a lead designer and have met some very special people on that forum.
One of them happens to be a non-believer in Christ. That really isnt the difficult part. You see... she was raised in a fundamentalist Christian church her whole life, where she spoke in toungues as well as saw many great healings take place before her eyes.
After she got married and had kids she started to do research on her own about Judaism which ( if I understand it correctly) is where she "discovered that Jesus wasnt the Messiah".
She has given me many links that she thought would prove that Jesus wasnt the Messiah, but they did little for me other than show the typical Apologetics Debate between Christians and Jews. I have become very close with her and desperately want to see her come back from not believing to believing, if not for herself ... for her family (who are sturggling with her decision).
I have yet to get into anything really deep with her, because I have decided to take the approach of learning as much about what she believes as I can first. I still dont know what the key point is that has pushed her into not believing, but Im ready to find this out now.
Two things that she has mentioned to me that sound strange are this.
* She still feels the urge to speak in tongues, even as a non-believer.
* She claims to have always been able to see auroas around people, even as a child, which she was too scared to tell her family about.
Im not sure what she is claiming, but I can tell you all that I know she is very honest with me, and this is something that she is scared to tell many people.
A side note, I have started to get to know her husband a bit... and he is a believer. Im not nearly as close to him as I wish I could be, though I do plan on visiting them soon to get to know the whole family.
I guese this opens up the doors for many questions. One, I just want some advice to find out how to talk to her about her "de-conversion" as well as learn more about the reason she has for not believing anymore... and Two, I am very curious about the gifts she claims she has... can the gift of speaking in tongues still exsist without being filled with the Holy Spirit? and what about this Auora thing... what is that all about?
Thanks again for all of your help and time, this forum has answered many questions for me and I think Ive only read about half of it! hee hee...
In HIS grip,
- Sir Mighty Halo (Brian)