Mark,
You wrote:
But keep in mind what the Arminian is saying.
He has made a decision by an act of his will to trust in Christ. His neighbour has not done so, therefore the Arminian is doing something that the neighbour is not doing, therefore the Arminian can have a boast before God, for he has made the vital difference by an act of his supposed free will.
You only think this in your imagination.
Our doing what is right, believing God and that he will do what He promised, is absolutely nothing to boast about and is absurd on the face of it! Hear what Jesus says:
Luke 17:7-10 (New International Version)
7"Suppose one of you had a servant plowing or looking after the sheep. Would he say to the servant when he comes in from the field, 'Come along now and sit down to eat'? 8Would he not rather say, 'Prepare my supper, get yourself ready and wait on me while I eat and drink; after that you may eat and drink'? 9Would he thank the servant because he did what he was told to do? 10So you also, when you have done everything you were told to do, should say, 'We are unworthy servants; we have only done our duty.' "
And you believe that when a person stops calling God a liar he has something to brag about?
I have long thought that the one song I would like at my funeral would be "Jesus Paid It All". As the song says, when I stand before The Lord that will be my only plea.