I realize this thread is very old, but I can't resist posting.
Paidion wrote:The Father begat His Son as the first event ever to happen.
I think you are stepping out on a limb with this (a creaky and fragile one hanging off the edge of a cliff).
The term "only-begotten son" is not a scientific one that is meant to explicate the nature of the temporal relationship between the Father and the Son, but a relational one that had clear meaning to those who heard it. It is a metaphor, primarily drawing on the preciousness and pride-of-position that an only son would have to a culture that sees passing one's name and inheritance to a son as the next best thing to immortality.
I cannot personally accept a description of Jesus that in any way implies that he was created. Jesus is in very nature God. To say the Father "begat him in time as an event" is to end up firmly in the Jehovah's Witnesses camp. They do agree that through Jesus all things were made, well, except Jesus Himself, of course.
The desire to come up with wonderful and interesting explanations for the universe and reality is one I share. I love reading sci-fi books and thinking deeply about each author's constructs, his unifying theory that ties everything together and hints at the "deeper" rules behind everything. But we have to keep clear on what is pure speculation and what is solid rock.
We don't know if time is a created thing or not. We don't know if God exists outside of time or inside of time. I am inclined to believe the former, as I see problems in the idea of
eternity already having passed inside of time. But perhaps that's just my limitation as a human being, unable to conceive of such things.
I'm tempted to call out flaws in some of your other points (such as that space doesn't really exist at all) but I think for now I'd like to avoid diluting what I've said already.
Erik