I completely agree with Steve's understanding concerning God's tough love.Steve wrote:I don't quite understand this objection. Why would a punishment (or discipline) that is calculated to restore the lost man from his delusive commitment to self-destruction be considered as anything other than loving? I never disciplined my children out of any motive other than love for them.
It is common for Christians to place God's love and His wrath in tension with each other. Thus, the argument seems to be, "God is often (usually?) loving, but we cannot deny His wrath and justice. Sometimes His love is overruled by His wrath and justice." If there is really a perceived conflict between God's judgment and His love (which I do not admit), then which would trump the other? Which is more dominant in God's character? If there is a tension between these two, doesn't mercy triumph over judgment (James 2:13)?
The Bible says that "God is love" (1 John 4:8). It does not add "but sometimes God simply cannot be loving." The Bible also says "God is Spirit" (John 4:24) and "God is Light" (1 John 1:5). Is it possible to think that God is only sometimes Spirit, and sometimes not. or that God is sometimes Light, but sometimes He has to be darkness? If God is love, then it is impossible for Him ever to act contrary to love—which is His nature. "He cannot deny Himself" (2 Tim.2:13).
Since punishment can as readily be loving as unloving, why should we doubt that God, who is love, would ever punish in any way that is not loving?
For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” (Hebrews 12:6)
If He disciplines His children with severe correction, why not his enemies also?