mattrose wrote:You don't know what the pain of rejection is like?
When I was a small child I experienced rejection from other kids, other siblings and even my earthly father
who adopted me...(never my mother)..but that was when I was young and learning. Now, when I experience
someone "rejecting me" there is absolutely NO pain...because I know that I will not be rejected in heaven.
If I am keeping my eyes on Jesus then I know that Jesus is NOT rejecting me. What else could I want? When
my children were toddlers...they used to sometimes "reject me" out of their little independent natures... I
smiled and thought it was cute. I knew they were little sinners as children growing up... as a parent I did
not take their "rejection" personally. They are "owned" by God and NOT me. I give these "problems" over
to God Whom I believe has no problems but is in perfect control of the situation. Sometimes I even say
that it is "God's business" what happens and not mine. God holds the future...if you know that someday
you will be restored then there is no "pain of rejection" in my personal experience. If all of my children
rejected me...but I knew perfectly at that moment that someday we would all be restored and it would
even be BETTER because of the type of relationship that comes through forgiveness and restoration, then
why would it be painful to me? As a fellow sinner, however, it IS sad for me to see my children suffer
consequences for things i have already struggled through because I know the pain of it. I do NOT think
it will be painful for me someday when I am in a glorified body in heaven...and that is very important
to this discussion.
mattrose wrote:When you say 'nothing can be added or taken away from God' you seem to be over-inflating the doctrine of God's immutability. The idea that God never changes pertains to God's character. He changes in many ways other than His character.
What are these "many other ways" that God the Father changes? Please be specific.
mattrose wrote:You also over-inflate omniscience, in my opinion. I'd imagine you feel God is impassible because you feel God couldn't get emotional about things that God knows are going to happen anyways. I even doubt that premise (even Jesus cried over the death of Lazarus), but I think it is based on philosophical concepts of God existing outside of time to begin with.
As a side matter of clarification I do not believe that "God exists outside of time." A more accurate way to describe
omni-temporal (rather than atemporal) is to say omni-time or "beyond the limitations of time and space." If time
is infinite, then it can be part of God's infinite domain that we get created into (to experience duration as finite
created beings who move). As far as Jesus crying over Lazarus, "Do you believe that Jesus cries in His Glorified Body?"
mattrose wrote:I have no doubt that the fallen state of our emotions renders them distinct from God's perfect emotions.
Does God's perfect emotions contain "regret?" Is God the Father a "regretful" God? Is God the Father a God Who
experiences "loss?" Is this an emotional injury to God? Is it an emotional problem for God? Please be specific.
prior post:
Why would a sovereign omnipotent omniscient immutable God have any "regrets?" This part of grief makes absolutely no sense to me. Please explain God's grief or so called "loss" in this context.
mattrose wrote:Perhaps your understanding of those 4 or 5 words are confused and that is why it makes no sense to you.
How is my understanding of the word "sovereign" or any of the other words different from yours? Is this loss an injury to God?
The majority of the ways in which we describe God's actions (such as hands, eyes of the Lord, God spoke, etc.) are indeed anthropomorphic. If the prophets did this regularly there is no reason to believe they were not being anthropomorphic when they used a word in Hebrew that was dynamically equivalent to "repented." God does NOT need to repent.. this stands opposed to basic concepts of omniscience and immutability.
mattrose wrote:It stands opposed to YOUR concepts of omniscience and immutability.
How are your concepts of omniscience and immutability specifically different from mine? Also (because of your
response here), are you saying that God "repented" in some way?
I think there is a dynamic of pleased and displeased (described as disappointed because God knows that it is not optimal for us).... but that is quite different from "hurt" or feelings of "loss."
mattrose wrote:That's just playing with words in my opinion. If someone is pleased or displeased they are experiencing emotion. God's experiences emotion perfectly.
Can you be displeased and NOT experience loss? Can you be displeased and not experience "regret?" I say YES.
There is a difference, however, between God knowing our free will choices and knowing that they are not optimal for us, and in this sense being described as "disappointed" or "displeased" verses God the Father suffering or experiencing transcendent tragedies or experiencing "pain" or "loss" or somehow "hurt." How do you hurt a Perfect Infinite Creator? You have not addressed this. How does a Perfect Infinite and Sovereign Creator experience the so called "pain of rejection?" Please be specific. This makes absolutely no sense.
mattrose wrote:Actually, I have addressed it.
I know that you may believe that you have addressed it, but please allow me to make it easy for you:
I know I have asked these same questions all through this post...but until you answer these questions you
will really not have addressed it:
1. Does God experience transcendent tragedies? are these a problem for God?
2. Does God experience pain, loss or hurt? are these emotional injuries to God?
3. If they are emotional injuries to God, THEN are they in anyway problems for God?
4. Is Jesus in His glorified body experiencing either "hurt" "loss" "emotional pain" or "sadness"
or "sorrow" now that He is in His glorified body watching over us here on earth?
5. Why is it hurtful to God if God already knows He is going to make it right in the end? Please be specific.
mattrose wrote:I have a different understanding of words such as immutable, impassible, omniscient, and emotion than you do.
I don't use impassible... I've never liked the word in this context. How is your understanding of immutable and omniscience specifically different than mine in relation to this subject?
mattrose wrote:Given my understanding of these words, my position makes good sense.
I'm asking a lot of questions here before I come to a 'final' conclusion of whether or not this is really bad theology.
Please understand that I am trying to understand your position. Years ago, I went through a discussion with some
brothers at our church on whether or not "God 'needs' anything" or somehow "needs us." This is very reminiscent
of that discussion. How do you reconcile "loss" "tragedy from God's perspective" or "God being hurt" with a Perfect
Creator Who has no problems? Does your concept of God include God having any problems? (such as loss, hurt,
emotional injury, sorrow, regret, pain of rejections?).
mattrose wrote:In my view, it makes sense b/c God has an immutable character of perfect love.
Does perfect love mean "it's a problem for you" if someone rejects you?
mattrose wrote:In His perfect love, He created people and sacrificially subjected Himself to genuinely work with and through these free creatures.
Agreed. But are you implying that God the Father somehow makes Himself "vulnerable?" (as in emotionally vulnerable to be hurt or experience the pain of rejection?) Why can't God work through people "genuinely" and experience the
joy of some and give justice to others without suffering emotional pain?
mattrose wrote:This voluntary subjection includes working in time (the future does not yet exist).
Does God perfectly "know" this future?
mattrose wrote:God, in partnering with these people, experiences moments of being pleased and displeased.
Does being displeased really cause God the Father emotion "pain?"
mattrose wrote:Creating free people includes risk. Sometimes these risks prove worthwhile and cause joy in heaven.
So now we add "risk" to the already loss, sadness, hurt, pain of rejection, etc. How does a sovereign Creator take risks?
mattrose wrote:Sometimes they do not work out well and cause sorrow.
Is God the Father in control of causing His Own "sorrow"? Or allowing His Own sorrow? Is it an injury to Him?
Is it a problem for Him? Is it a risk for Him?
mattrose wrote:God's character of perfect love continues on perfectly, but His activity changes frequently, always on a quest to welcome more of His creatures into His circle of love.
What "activities" are you referring to here that somehow "change frequently?" Do these activities make God somehow change? Or is God working through people and people are the ones who are changing?